According to foryourmarriage.org, marriage is the intimate union and equal partnership of a man and a woman, natural institution and a sacred union because it is rooted in the divine plan of creation. It’s not just as easy as you felt that love at first sight, marriage is a big decision to make it’s not just about you love each other so dearly that you want to, you should also think about your financials, your everyday need and your living, how about your place to live, your own house, etc. and when all of those things turns into problem you should know how to fix it and not thinking about divorcement, before thinking about marriage you also think how can you be able to make that marriage stronger.
Divorce is a legally dissolve one’s marriage. I am against of this being legal in the Philippines because divorce will let them separate without fixing their problems. Almost all of the married couples faces many problems and misunderstanding that they can’t solve and some ends up separating. They forget that when you married someone that’s when you found the one you truly love, that someone can lower you stress and you two can have a better communication, you want to have your own family. Those are things that a married couple forgets when they are in the middle of their anger, pain and stress they forget how did they start and all of those factors of why did they marry each other ill just fade. They should know that problems have its solution and it’s not Divorce.
It is not our God wants for us. We all know that He never want or favored in divorce. He didn’t make a man and a woman to get together and have family then separated them. We people are the ones who wants divorce and not our father above. In an article said that If you fear the Lord and his commands, there is no way that you will agree on divorce. If divorce will be legal how about those married couple who has already children’s? their child will grow up having a Broken family that can affect its life and personality. According to thedisciplers.com, a child who are raised by their mother and father will never experience poor parenting and guiding during their childhood. Divorce have a side effects not only to you but mostly to your children, a child can feel anxiety, higher level of stress, it can also affect their mood swing and their communication with its family, also its behavioral and have a poor education it can affect their performance at school, they can develop violent and antisocial behavior that can lead them to do crime.
Your Child is also prone to use substance abuse like drugs or marijuana because of poor guiding of their divorce parents. A child can also feel an intense sadness because of hearing their parents fighting and it can lead them on growing up having a depression or worse it might commit suicide. thediscipler.com stated that Suicide rates for children who have a divorce parents are higher than those children who have a complete family, according to huffingtonpost.com, they conducted a study and 49,093 participants were interviewed by the U.S. Bureau of Census regarding the marital status, 13,753 were classified as depressed and 2.4 percent reported lifetime suicide attempts. Divorce can hurt those people around you, your friends, close to your family because they are the one who needs to take side when you file a divorce, it hurts to see that they need to take which side who are going to take.
Divorce can also be an excuse to cause adultery. A marriage can end when his/her partner find out that the other had an adulterous relationship, based on verywellmind.com, in some countries adultery considered criminal. Infidelity is the cause of other underlying, unresolved problems in the marriage. Loving someone while you are in marriage is not a good idea, we all know that cheating can destroy a ones relationship, if divorce will be legal in the Philippines there will be more rates of a divorce man or woman who is having an adulterous relationship, it’s not healthy and it can ruin your profile in the society. That’s where you will test the trust, because adultery is the cause of not having a good communication that’s when you and your trust to each starts to fade. That is why in every marriage needs a good communication, strong bonds because Divorce is not going to help you resolve those problems you are facing.