Legalized Divorce in the Philippines By Althea Gaile De Vera

       According to foryourmarriage.org, marriage is the intimate union and equal partnership of a man and a woman, natural institution and a sacred union because it is rooted in the divine plan of creation. It’s not just as easy as you felt that love at first sight, marriage is a big decision to make it’s not just about you love each other so dearly that you want to, you should also think about your financials, your everyday need and your living, how about your place to live, your own house, etc. and when all of those things turns into problem you should know how to fix it and not thinking about divorcement, before thinking about marriage you also think how can you be able to make that marriage stronger.

       Divorce is a legally dissolve one’s marriage. I am against of this being legal in the Philippines because divorce will let them separate without fixing their problems. Almost all of the married couples faces many problems and misunderstanding that they can’t solve and some ends up separating. They forget that when you married someone that’s when you found the one you truly love, that someone can lower you stress and you two can have a better communication, you want to have your own family. Those are things that a married couple forgets when they are in the middle of their anger, pain and stress they forget how did they start and all of those factors of why did they marry each other ill just fade. They should know that problems have its solution and it’s not Divorce.

        It is not our God wants for us. We all know that He never want or favored in divorce. He didn’t make a man and a woman to get together and have family then separated them. We people are the ones who wants divorce and not our father above. In an article said that If you fear the Lord and his commands, there is no way that you will agree on divorce. If divorce will be legal how about those married couple who has already children’s? their child will grow up having a Broken family that can affect its life and personality. According to thedisciplers.com, a child who are raised by their mother and father will never experience poor parenting and guiding during their childhood. Divorce have a side effects not only to you but mostly to your children, a child can feel anxiety, higher level of stress, it can also affect their mood swing and their communication with its family, also its behavioral and have a poor education it can affect their performance at school, they can develop violent and antisocial behavior that can lead them to do crime.

            Your Child is also prone to use substance abuse like drugs or marijuana because of poor guiding of their divorce parents. A child can also feel an intense sadness because of hearing their parents fighting and it can lead them on growing up having a depression or worse it might commit suicide. thediscipler.com stated that Suicide rates for children who have a divorce parents are higher than those children who have a complete family, according to huffingtonpost.com, they conducted a study and 49,093 participants were interviewed by the U.S. Bureau of Census regarding the marital status, 13,753 were classified as depressed and 2.4 percent reported lifetime suicide attempts. Divorce can hurt those people around you, your friends, close to your family because they are the one who needs to take side when you file a divorce, it hurts to see that they need to take which side who are going to take.

        Divorce can also be an excuse to cause adultery. A marriage can end when his/her partner find out that the other had an adulterous relationship, based on verywellmind.com, in some countries adultery considered criminal. Infidelity is the cause of other underlying, unresolved problems in the marriage. Loving someone while you are in marriage is not a good idea, we all know that cheating can destroy a ones relationship, if divorce will be legal in the Philippines there will be more rates of a divorce man or woman who is having an adulterous relationship, it’s not healthy and it can ruin your profile in the society. That’s where you will test the trust, because adultery is the cause of not having a good communication that’s when you and your trust to each starts to fade. That is why in every marriage needs a good communication, strong bonds because Divorce is not going to help you resolve those problems you are facing.

Critique Paper of the article “A Day in the Life of a Food Stylist” By Althea Gaile De Vera

         The article that I have read is written by Johanna Sorrentino at November 30, 2015. The article is all about a food stylist named Adam Pearson who was styling the dishes seen in catalogs, magazines and cookbook such as the food network and etc. It was a good start for him to find out what he wants to be, the one that is suitable to him and he loves.

          This article is like it is for a magazine about foods, it focuses on the food stylist, how he started, what does he do. In short it is an interview. The author uses some photos of Mr. Pearson of the foods he captures and the way they design or plating a food is nice and have an aesthetic ambiance.

          Some articles use objective type to catch more audience and to give information to the ones who needs it. What I have notice on this article is that the author makes it subjectively because it is an interview type where he asks about the life of the food stylist. It has a well-structured paragraph and some are grammatically wrong. He does this article as a question and answer portion to understand it easily and he put some of the picture of the foods that Mr. Pearson has taken to let the readers know that he got the best shots. If you are really into culinary and photography you won’t get bored reading an article like this.

            In overall, this article just wants us to tell what is food stylist and how do they do their work, the words that use isn’t hard to understand, its format is good and it stated facts because they interviewed directly the food stylist. My recommendation for their article is check some of their grammars and ask him some more questions about culinary, how he discover getting culinary arts.

Some Requirements on Being a Successful Person by Althea Gaile De Vera

        A lot of people nowadays want to become successful. Some, do not want to settle for the better they want the best for themselves, but they cannot be successful if they do not strive harder on what they want. Success is not just giving satisfaction in life but also to others, they might did not know they were helping someone to reach their goals too. Being successful at any job requires punctuality, dependability and ambition.

            Success is not complicated; it is hard because that is what they think about. The first requirement is punctuality. Being on time at work helps to practice not being late not just in work but also to other things. For example, an employee presenting a proposal to the board, preparing it early, presenting it on time and the proposal might be approving. Another example, going to a job interview, being on time at an interview is a must, it will help gain trust and respect to the company. Having a punctual characteristic can show that a person can be trusted, also helps strengthen one’s integrity and build self-confidence.

             A dependability person also requires on being successful. Aside from being punctual, a person must be reliable too. Being a reliable person can enhance ones’ performance at work. A dependable person can easily be promoted at work because of being a trustworthy person and consistent at its job. They can be easily trusted, show them trust and respect, they will give it back. A person having a dependable characteristic can help keep a long lasting job. In order to be successful one must be a dependable one.

            We all want to be successful someday, to be well-known, one must have a desire on what we’re doing. Being successful also requires ambition. Working without ambition will also be your failure at work, having an ambition helps a person to work harder, to learn more and to test its limits. Sometime, weak moments will come it is okay, but keep on track. Doing what a person desire on work will make itself determined on its job, will have passion and discipline, those will lead on reaching its success. Ambition will be a guide on its what really aspire them to be or want to be someday.

             Success is not something that can get easily somewhere, one must go through a steps, work hard to reach its goal. Success can found by living, not by dreaming. A person must start living its life to be able to have that success, not just planning what to do, start doing something. Its starts when a person is a punctual, dependable and have an ambition. Being on time, a trustworthy person and an aspiring one will help gaining its skill and performance at work. In that way, a person can earn a lot of confidence and can receive a lot of good feedback from its co-workers. Go out of your comfort zone and challenge oneself. There are so many chances out there, take a risk and try it

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